Tuesday, May 25, 2010


I know many of us follow Slastena's blog. Her blog made me start my own to tell you the truth! (Thanks Slastena!) I didnt know how to write a blog but after coming across her blog through my love for Jcrew, I finally became comfortable as to how and what to blog about.

How can someone who exudes such positive energy be under attack? I read her apology and it seriously was a testament to her character. She is selfless, kind and humble. She obviously is such a strong woman, having a wonderful career, being a great wife and mother to her family. However, I could tell from one of her responses to me that she has been hurt by some mean comments. Why do women have to pick on other women and make them feel bad? It is stressful enough to have men do that to us but ladies, we need to uphold our sisterhood and be supportive of one another. Blogging is therapeutic and its free! We need to appreciate the time that each of us put in to share a part of ourselves to friends and complete strangers. Dont take this wonderful experience away from anyone by making it an upsetting one.

Responses, comments and blogging is not an obligation it is a choice. I have more than 9000 visits but 17 followers, I rarely receive comments but I am very thankful that I have this medium to express myself.

To the "mean girls" please try to be positive! This is for you Slastena dear!

Sunday, May 23, 2010


Ok ladies, I know I already acknowledged God's goodness. However, I just wanted to say that when he doesnt answer our prayer requests, I think it is still an answer. It means that there are reasons behind why He didnt grant us what we wanted. God sees far beyond what we can and we just need to trust Him right? This is where I am right now after having an answered prayer, I got an unanswered one hahaha. How easy it would be to doubt again but I know He knows better!

Thanks for your time!


I just wanted to share my praise to God. When things seem dark and when it seems like there isnt a way out, God makes things happen. With God nothing is impossible! Thank you Lord for an answered prayer!

May your prayers be answered as well!

Have a wonderful week ladies!

Friday, May 21, 2010

Pretty Boy

K its been three weeks since I last met pretty boy...boy o boy I really cant keep my mind off him. He was just so attractive! I was just VERY attracted! I just needed to vent, I honestly havent had a huge crush in such a long time! LOL I can ladies, Im single so no harm in having one right? ;)

He is the one on the picture...lovely smile, pretty face, seductive eyes, and a sexy body. *sigh* Hope I meet someone like him again! Thanks for your time ladies. Mwah! Have a great weekend!

Monday, May 10, 2010


I apologize for the late greeting. I spent quality time with my mom and decided to give her all my attention over the weekend, thus no timely greeting for the rest of you =)

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!! I hope you all had a great weekend. My mom did and it made me so happy! Here's a goofy picture. The first two pictures were taken by my mom so I posted it =)

Thursday, May 6, 2010

It sucks to be single!

Hello ladies! I know I had a post regarding me hating being single. I decided to pull it down since the chances of someone recognizing me or pretty boy is there.

I still had the urge to vent and express my frustration on the issue of being single...IT SUCKS!!!

I met a bunch of "boys" in their late 20's and yes ladies, they were boys! It hit me like a ton of bricks, 30's is the new 20's which means they were just teenagers! Yikes! The room was filled with doctors, lawyers and successful men in their respective careers but boy did they act young! I felt like I was at a frat party!!! Is it just me or weren't men in their late 20's settled and sophisticated when I was a little girl. I always thought wow how lovely to see men in their 20's acting like adults and couldnt wait to be grown up and be with one...WRONG! There has to be some environmental hit that happened which mutated the genes and caused slow development and maturity!

My gosh where are the ideal men out there??? The married ladies I met told me they are out there...where??? Do you guys know? Care to share where? I was soooo exhausted by the end of the event. I am not old but my mind is. I honestly just want someone who is settled, nice to look at, loving and loyal. I think I need to go older. There is just no looking towards the pool of young men to get what I want.

Do you ladies agree? Are men in their 20's really behaving like frat boys or was it just the crowd of people I was with?


Monday, May 3, 2010

the dress

Hello ladies! This is the dress I ended up wearing. Everyone was too tipsy to take a picture of the entire outfit =( Did I make a good choice?