Ive seen pictures on the net and it really breaks my heart to see Jon with someone else, smoking and drinking in Europe while Kate was grocery shopping for her kids here in the states. I have to say that although Kate wasnt really the nicest wife on earth, she doesnt deserve this type of humiliation. I honestly think that her behavior stemmed from the stress of dealing with her household. If Kate really had a bad character, she would have lambasted Jon way before the divorce and even when she was asked about how she felt that Jon was holding hands with someone in Europe. That speaks volumes of her character. A woman scorned would usually say the worst things but she kept her composure and was just quiet about it.
I dont know, Im sure she's in pain. I think no matter how mad one is at someone, hurt always wins over anger. Im so sure she is in so much pain.
When I saw Jon spending time with his new girlfriend and the designer for Ed Hardy, it dawned on me that he was wearing Ed Hardy way before the divorce. I even remembered saying wow, Jon is wearing Ed Hardy stuff, he must have a stylist now(indeed he did...his new gf). Its so farfetched to buy EH stuff since he was clearly a BR or Gap fan. Boy did it make sense. He probably was already seeing that girl ( yes girl) during that time. Well, I know that you can buy Ed Hardy anywhere but its just so unlikely that he would pick it himself. Oh well thats just my theory.
I dont like Jon anymore!!! He just transformed into a "jerk looking" guy overnight! I mean come on, he wasnt the nicest husband either but seeing those pics just propelled him to a different status of "jerkness". I honestly feel bad for the kids. Im sure they will see all these when theyre older and they will be hurt by all of it. They dont deserve that, they are great children! Very well behaved and intelligent! Wow, its so sad when men stray. Its more sad when they do it more than once. Now there isnt a chance in the world that Kate will take him back...NONE! I hope not!!! It sucks when men can make mistakes and repent and be taken back and adored coz he is considered a "changed man" but when women stray, the stigma stays with her until the day she dies.
Lessons to be learned... I think that when we marry we shouldnt forget that we are a partner as much as we are moms to our kids. We should refrain from being/acting like a mom to our husbands. Lastly, I think women who see men who are happy and married should just appreciate that from afar and try to emulate that by finding one for themselves but not stealing that man away from his family. Oftentimes, that is the scenario and it breaks up families and scars the people involved forever. So ladies try to find your own man, if he left someone for you, chances are he will leave you for someone else so that is nothing to be flattered about(just like Jon left his first gf for this new one).
Ok I think I shouldnt have used "we" coz I am still single and dont have any children but you know what I mean ;) Thanks for listening!